Table of Contents:

•  Words, Words, Words: The Names We Call Ourselves, by Heath Harding
•  Dear Gabby, by Gabrielle St. Charles
•  Alternative Family Magazine: Now Online!!
•  RAP: Local Hotline for Questioning Youth, by Angel
•  Missing Manhattan's LGBT Community, by Holly & Lisa
•  Home for the Holidays, by Christine Robinson
•  Letter from the FHA President, Angela C
•  Halloween Bash, by Jen Bame
•  Upcoming Community Events

 

Words, Words, Words: The Names We Call Ourselves
by Heath Harding (heath70@ksu.edu)

I had a conversation once with a friend about calling myself a queer. Should we use or lose queer from our language? He said lose it because ‘queer’ always meant ‘different’ to him. I asked him what should be used instead? He preferred the word ‘gay.’ (I couldn’t stand myself if I had to by happy AND gay.)

This started a landslide of thoughts and questions. I’ve heard people use hetro-normal to describe straight people. Does that make me homo-abnormal and bent? How gay is gay? What is the gay agenda?

What about fag? I’ve heard friends call each other fag instead of the traditional and out-of-vogue ‘good to see you.’ Now, have a stranger call them a fag and we have drama with a capital D. It’s the new Drama Queen Barbie, just add epithet.  And how should I describe my life? Is it a preference? I prefer chocolate to vanilla. Have you ever tried to answer the why question to that one? Hmmmm, let me seen now! Don’t rush me, I am thinking. They are both smooth and creamy. But there is something there; I just can’t put my finger on it. (Or maybe I should have said it is on the tip of my tongue.)

How about lifestyle? If I had more time I might enrapture you all with tales from my sister’s left-handed lifestyle. Or my aunt’s brunette lifestyle. Oh My God! Have you heard about the left-handed gay brunette lifestyle just developed in New York City. (Don’t worry all you blondies - you now have a choice with Clairol, even if you are an Ex-Brunette.)

We then have orientation. I always feel that I should have a sun dial on the top of my head and a stamp across my backside that reads ‘Fragile. This end up.’ I personally try to keep an upright orientation so everybody gets to see my best side. Words! They can’t hurt you but sticks, stones, guns, chains and meanings can. Words are strings of letters without their meanings. What is a queer, a fag, a dyke? What do they all mean? It is the definitions that hurt, not which words we use for catagories.

You DON’T have to accept other people’s meanings, though. You can change or make up your own and the definitions don’t have to be negative. We also need to use positive meanings so the negative ones won’t persist.

All in all, what started out as a conversation about labeling me is really moot. I don’t care what words you use to describe me or my so called life. I don’t have to accept your meanings. I define me, you don’t. You aren’t going to hurt this queer anymore.

Gabrielle St Charles is a local Salina woman with a national following for her lesbian romance writing. To contact her, write via email to RomanceWriter4u@aol.com or via postal mail at C/O Bella Books, PO Box 201007, Ferndale, MI 48220. Also, please visit her website the Dear Gabby website for more wonderful romance advice.

Dear Gabby-

I met a woman recently that really knocked my socks off. I am a woman who likes to date, to see many women, and I never really settle down. I do, however, find this woman of the particular kind I might want to keep  around. I have always been pursued and never really had to do anything in the relationships that I have been in. That is not true in this case. I need help. I want to impress her; she seems semi-uninterested, but still seems to end up at the places that I like to hang out at. Can you give me any pointers on how I might get her attention?

- proathleteMiami
 

Dear ProAthlete:

The first thing is that you must learn that all things worth having are worth working for. She isn't so much so different than you are. You want to catch her attention? Here are some ideas:

1. Dance the Dance: Play hard to get. What attracts you so much is that she is taking on your role. So, now you have to play the romance game. She just shows up where you hang out? Blow her off a couple of times. I am assuming when she shows up, you are mesmerized by her and try to lavish her with attention. Stop! Send her a drink, and then leave the bar. Take care of her dinner check, but don't say anything, just leave. Send a card the next day and tell her you were glad to see her. She isn't impressed with who you are, you need to show her the inner you, the special part of you that makes you such a wonderful woman.

2. Send her a love letter written by William Shakespeare, Lord Byron or someone you admire with a short note that says, I thought I would share this with you; it's one of my favorites. Make sure you send it to her; work would be the best place for her to receive it. Be discreet.

3. Ask her to dinner in a very dramatic, sensual, romantic way. Call a deli or a great restaurant, I prefer to use ones that have owners that work the floor, because they care more about their patrons. Have lunch delivered; request smiley faces and hearts on the containers.  Order something you think most people can stomach, you don't want her to hate it, but the note should read, "If you don't like this, it just means I need to get to know you better. If you do, great. Either way, meet me for dinner tonight, please call to confirm the time. I am at your mercy." Sign it and leave your number for confirmation. Then, have flowers and balloons delivered--heavy on the balloons, filled with helium. And ask the florist to make sure that they are to be placed with the lunch, most people are more than cooperative, given the time to plan. If she doesn't like this, then maybe she really just isn't interested. But,  I think you should give it a try.

Dear Gabby-

(This letter has been condensed) There is this woman named Jen that I went to school with. We never really got along back in those days though, because her family had money and I liked girls; she didn't much approve of me. She and I ran into one another again, only this time something was different; she had a girlfriend. She is SINGLE and I am SINGLE now and I am saying we need to hook it UP! She has reservations. She promised me ONE night. I just know in my heart that she is the one! But, what if she simply limits me to hat one night of passion and we never look back? I don't know if I could handle that. I don't just sleep with anyone and I honestly feel like we could be a great couple. Should we do the deed, or what???

GeminiDJ
 

Dear Gem-

Only you know if you should or shouldn't take advantage of this situation. My suggestion might not be what you expect, but I think it is more on the track of what you need to make this a relationship, rather than a night. You need sensual, not sexual. If you only care to do this one night of passion, you are shorting yourself.

This is what good old Gabby would do. I would first of all say I want the night, but on my terms. I get to plan it all. I would do the Gabby standard, call the flower shops in your area and ask them to save their rose petals that fall for a week. Gather them before your date. Prepare/order dinner and have it ready, snack trays are my favorite. A combination of meats, if you eat them, cheeses, fruits and dips along with the right wine/juice can make a sensual dinner for sure. Get rid of all the furniture in one room, move it into another so that all you have is floor. Spread blankets all over, some areas padded, some just covered. Throw pillows all around. Set up a stereo on a single table, along with your goodies. Light with candles and have the appropriate music available. Dreams of Desire is a great classical mix and my friend, Judy  Francesconi, did the photography, one of my favorites. Have massage oils heating, towels ready, a sheet to cover her and a grand dessert planned.

I think from here you can take it where you want it. I, myself, would make sure that I didn't just jump in bed with her, but that I showed her that she means so much more to me than that. I wouldn't sleep with her, but I would kiss and cuddle all that I could; that's just me.

Tip for the month: Rose petals fall onto floral stores floors all the time.  If you have a romantic evening planned, call ahead and have them gather the petals for you. Drop them on floors for a trail to something special, spread them between sheets and then make the bed, put them inside gift boxes, run one over your kissing partners lips before you kiss them, be creative. They are a great resource for romance.

Alternative Family Magazine: Now Online!!

Alternative Family Magazine is a national parenting magazine for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered parents and their children. There is a bi-monthly fee for a subscription of this publication, but many of its articles and resources are available on-line. It includes information on health, nutrition, and child development issues as well as articles geared specifically to the GLBT parents and their children.

RAP: Local Hotline for Questioning Youth
by Angel Skaggs (CESkaggs001@aol.com)

The Regional AIDS Project has begun a program that reaches out to teenagers that are questioning their sexual orientation. Teens that are questioning their orientation, or who identify as gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender, are at a higher risk of many self destructive behaviors. Queer teens are three times more likely to attempt suicide than their straight peers. They are more likely to experiment with drugs, alcohol, and unprotected anonymous sex. Queer, and questioning teens, are more likely to experience violence, isolation, and harassment than straight teens. Life for a teen that is questioning their sexual orientation can be very difficult, but it doesn’t have to be. Many teens, and young adults, that identify as queer say that the element they desire most is someone to talk to.

The Regional AIDS Project has started an anonymous hotline for middle and high school students to call. The hotline is answered by trained adult volunteers that are members of the queer community or strong allies. These volunteers are not here to answer life’s major questions or determine the teen’s sexual orientation. They are simply supportive, caring individuals that are willing to listen and sympathize with any teen that needs to talk. The hotline is open Monday, Wednesday, and Friday from 3pm to 6 and open to any teen that needs to talk about sexuality issues, or issues that are affected by sexuality. Teens in Manhattan can call 587-9035 and teens in Junction City can call 238-5338. Both lines come directly into the RAP office where the volunteers are waiting.

We would appreciate your help in getting the word out to teens in our community. The teens need to know that the person on the other line will not judge them or force them to tell anyone about their emerging identity. They can remain completely anonymous, call as often as they need, and talk as long as they feel necessary. If you know of anyone that works with teens, and is an ally, please tell them about the hotline. Anyone can contact us for additional information and resources.

If you know of a teen that may need someone to talk to, pass our number along. As a community we can not afford to forget our youngest, and most vulnerable, members. The Gay, Lesbian, and Straight Education Network reported in 1999 that 80% of gay and lesbian teens report feeling severe social isolation. The teens in our community now have someone to reach out to, help us to let them know that. For additional information contact Angel at the Regional AIDS Project office (587-1999).

Missing Manhattan's LGBT Community
by Lisa Nichols and Holly Burmeister (zorgzorgzorg@earthlink.net)

As many of you know, in September, after a little over two years in Manhattan, we moved to rural Georgia, where we're spending the winter in retreat, making plans for the future. Long before we left Manhattan, we knew we'd miss much about the place.  Now that we here, it's confirmed:  we dearly miss our old queer community.

It's not just our lack of community here.  Yes, in Brunswick there is no lesbian-packed coffee klaatch; no gay Konza Prairie walk; no family-only City Pool party; no safe-to-be-out bike ride, picnic, skinny-dipping in the lake.  We don't even have (gasp) a potluck.  If it weren't for the paint woman at the Home Depot (our first confirmed local contact, 11/19/00), we'd still be completely isolated.

It's easy to forget living in Manhattan what's so marvelous about being among its lesbian and gay population.  After all, the town isn't so radical as Lawrence.  The closet still envelopes many family members, to one extent or another--and there are reasons to fear being openly out in all matters.  There is a core of local queerness, but many seem to come and go, and not only because they're just in town for the university. The Little Apple isn't the easiest place to be gay.

But that core of local queerness is really quite something.  It will accept into its circle pretty much anyone who presents her- or himself.  And, despite all the drama and incestuous difficulties of any such small subculture, its members are generally--eventually—pretty forgiving of each other's transgressions and hurtful histories.  Maybe it's easy to romanticize the ol' gang, especially now that we seem to be the only family for miles around, but the old gang seems like quite the treasure to us now.

Not long ago we corresponded by e-mail with another queer Manhattan ex-patriot who agreed that she'd never lived somewhere where there is quite so special a community as Manhattan's.  We realized recently that, even in our experience, there have been several former Manhattan family who just can't resist coming back to town now and again.  We hope to join their number soon with a visit back to see you all.

Or should we say "ya'll"?

Home for the Holidays...
by Christine Robinson (christinem_robinson@yahoo.com)

Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday. I have tried to incorporate the spirit of giving thanks into my everyday life. I am so fortunate to have a loving family of relatives, lovers (and ex-lovers, mostly), and friends. My parents and brothers love and accept me; my family and friends are in good health, and I absolutely love what I do every day as a student and an instructor. I feel incredibly blessed. Thanksgiving (and its spirit in my everyday life) also makes me keenly aware of others around me. The reason I am writing to you is to ask for your help during this holiday season. The holiday season is a wonderful time for many of us to get together with family and friends; the holidays can also be a very painful time of year for those who have lost family and friends. I am trying to help two close friends of mine, a lesbian couple, who moved to Lawrence, Kansas from Georgia last year and who are searching for their abducted daughter.

Just over two years ago, on October 31, 1998, Tara Budiman's daughter, Miranda Elaine Budiman, was abducted by her biological father and taken to Jakarta, Indonesia where he is originally from. Tara and Iwan were in the middle of a divorce when Iwan abducted Miranda. When the marriage was ending and Tara filed for divorce, she fell in love with her best friend and co-worker, Tammy O'Shields. Tammy and Miranda had already established a close relationship by the time Tara and Tammy became lovers.

Tara and Tammy decided about a year ago to make a new life for themselves in Lawrence, Kansas, since their families in Dallas, Georgia, where they were living, are very intolerant of their relationship, and because Tara has a lesbian cousin in Lawrence and felt they would have more emotional and social support here. Tara and Tammy have been working with the FBI, the US Embassy in Indonesia, private investigators, missing children agencies to find their daughter. They have held fund-raisers to help pay for the mounting expenses of trying to locate Miranda. Miranda was last seen in December of 1999 in Jakarta, Indonesia.

Tara and Tammy continue to raise money to pay for the investigators, attorneys, and other expenses related to finding Miranda. An account has been set up for donations at the Eudora branch of the Douglas County Bank; all proceeds of fund-raisers and donations go toward finding and bringing Miranda Budiman home. If you are able to help a worthy local cause to help someone "in the family," this is certainly one. To contribute to the "Bringing Miranda Home Fund," your tax deductible contribution can be made c/o Douglas County Bank, 1402 Church St., Eudora,KS 66025. Thank you in advance for any help, including your prayers, that you can offer to my friends. There is every reason to believe that Miranda will be home soon, with our help.

Tammy and Tara may be reached at bringmirandahome@hotmail.com. If you would like additional information about the case and would like to see photographs of both Iwan Budiman and Miranda Budiman visit the following websites:

Letter from the FHA President
Angela C. (Angelica115@excite.com)

Hello everyone! It has been two months since our last newsletter and the time has just flown. I have much news to share so grab a cup of tea or coffee.

The Flint Hills Alliance (FHA) officers met and decided with input from members to stop the printed version of newsletter that is mailed to everyone. We came to the conclusion that the printed version of the newsletter was costing too much and was not effective. Good news though, we are going to continue sending an events calendar in the mail for your bulletin board or planner/palm pilot. That way all the events will be at a glance. Also, the newsletter will continue to be on the web at http://www.thetriangle.itgo.com

The September event, the FHA Fall Picnic, was filled with lots of fun, great food and friends. We had a few old and new friends join us and it was a great day for a picnic. Again, I thank you Brenda and Mary for the donation of the picnic area. The women's Coffee Talk is still going strong with new faces joining every time. Coffee Talk has almost out-grown its room at Java Espresso and Bakery!

The October event of the Halloween Costume was a graveyard smash. (To view pictures of the Halloween Costume and Dance Party, click here.) FHA and Regional AIDS Project (RAP) co-sponsored the activity and it was held in the ECM auditorium. I want to thank all the volunteers and chairpersons for helping put this activity together. I sure had fun being a D.J. The potluck at Jen and Carol's was a great time by all. The Coffee Talks continued and FHA began a raffle of two ticket's to the Dixie Chicks that were donated by B. Hanger.

In November we had one Coffee Talk. At that Coffee Talk we had the Drawing for the Chick tickets and Mary won them. Thanks to everyone who donated for the chance. The Thanksgiving Potluck was at Bob and David's home. I unable to attend because of my part-time job at Walmart but I heard that Bob's Turkey and stuffing was scrumptious.

What we have coming up in the next few months is Coffee Talk on the second and fourth Fridays. There will be no potluck in December. Instead, everyone is meeting at Sirloin Stockade, Manhattan, KS, on Saturday December 16th for the Christmas Dinner. Jen and Carol plan to host the next potluck on January 19th. (See Upcoming Community Events for more details.)

Up coming in March, in a collaborated effort with QSA and RAP, there is a event called "Gay Fair Day" planned for March 3, 2001 at the ECM auditorium. It will be booths set up with professionals, artists and some vendors for all gay community to come and ask questions of services and shop. If anyone has ideas or suggestions, please email me. Stay tune for more details.

I wish you peace and love for the holidays.

Angela C., FHA President
Angelica115@excite.com

 (To view pictures of the Halloween Costume and Dance Party, click here.)

The edgy dark night air was lined with a frightening chill.  As I entered the gates of my Hallows Eve resting place, many strange sights surrounded me.  Peas and Carrots literally came to life and walked around, danced even to "We are Family."  A bloody beaten Prisoner and his abusive Guard danced lovingly. A Brothel Inspector snapped her latex glove. The Mardi Gras Queen zoomed around the room visiting each guest. A Scarecrow sipped root-beer and digesting peanut butter cup, after peanut butter cup.  Harry Potter stopped in to watch the madness of the evening while smiling at each costume. And a Gigantic Cat cautiously tiptoed about the room. It was the evening of the FHA, QSA, and RAP Holloween Costume Bash.  Much fun and dancing exploded from each creature of the night. We're you there? If not, you certainly should have been!! Keep your eyes and ears pealed for the next FHA, QSA, RAP social event!!

Upcoming Community Events

Wednesday November 29th: QSA's Icebreakers
Wednesday Nights at 6:00 p.m. Facilitated by volunteers, Icebreakers is a support group sponsored by KSU's Queer Straight Alliance dedicated to providing individuals with a confidential and safe environment where they can explore issues concerning sexual orientation.  Everything that is discussed does not leave the meeting and everyone is respected. Please note:  Icebreakers occasionally does not meet over school breaks and holidays. Please contact QSA by email at qsa@ksu.edu to confirm meeting date and location.

Thurs  Nov 30th, Fri Dec 1st, Sat Dec 2nd:  World AIDS Day Activities
As part of our World AIDS Day activities RAP will be bringing eight panels of the AIDS Quilt to Manhattan. Four of the panels will include local people who have passed away from AIDS related illnesses. According to the NAMES Foundation, Manhattan and Emporia will be the only displays of the Quilt in Kansas.

The main reason for bringing the Quilt to Manhattan is to demonstrate the fact that AIDS is in Kansas.
The Quilt will help to educate our youth and others, as well as bring together those who have lost family and friends.

This is a wonderful opportunity for members of our community to view the Quilt. There are people in our community who believe that this a manageable illness. We need to educate the community that not
everyone can tolerate the antiviral drugs, and that AIDS still kills. The war on AIDS is not over and we
need to continue to educate ourselves and others about this illness.

The display will be in the Ecumenical Campus Ministries (ECM) building at 1021 Denison Avenue,
Manhattan on November 30, from 9 am to 9 pm. December 1, from 9 am, to 4 pm., and December 2, from 12 pm to 7 pm. There will be a candle light walk from the Triangle Park in Aggieville to the ECM building. Other activities include: "Living with AIDS" video, a memory bell (to ring for loved ones you have lost), a memory book (to preserve the memory of those you have lost), information on HIV/STDs, and refreshments.

Sponsorship will play in important part in the success of our World AIDS Day events and bringing the
Quilt to Manhattan. We are inviting everyone to become sponsors to make this event successful. Any
contribution that you can make will be greatly appreciated. Sponsor names will be displayed during the
World AIDS Day events. Send your contributions for the Quilt to RAP,1021 Denison, Manhattan, KS 
66502. Call RAP at 587-1999 or 238-5338 for further information. For more information, email Regional AIDS Project at: rap@flinthills.com.

Sunday December 3rd:  KSU's Queer Straight Alliance Business Meeting
7 p.m. Union 206. For more information email QSA at: qsa@ksu.edu.

Monday December 4th:  The Manhattan Project
7-8 p.m. ECM Building , 1021 Denison, in the Lounge. Discussion group for gay men's issues. For more information, email Regional AIDS Project at: rap@flinthills.com.

Wednesday December 6th: QSA's Icebreakers
Wednesday Nights at 6:00 p.m. Facilitated by volunteers, Icebreakers is a support group sponsored by KSU's Queer Straight Alliance dedicated to providing individuals with a confidential and safe environment where they can explore issues concerning sexual orientation.  Everything that is discussed does not leave the meeting and everyone is respected. Please note:  Icebreakers occasionally does not meet over school breaks and holidays. Please contact QSA by email at qsa@ksu.edu to confirm meeting date and location.

Thursday December 7th:  FHA Business Meeting
5:30 pm. For more information, email FHA at: fha.kansas@usa.net.

Friday December 8th: FHA's Coffee Talk for Women
Coffee Talk for Women meets on the 2nd & 4th Fridays of each month from 8-9 pm at a local coffee house. For more information, email FHA at: fha.kansas@usa.net.

Sunday December 10th:  QSA SOCIAL Chili Feed/Gift Exchange.
Time TBA at Chris R's house. For more information email QSA at: qsa@ksu.edu.

Wednesday December 13th: QSA's Icebreakers
Wednesday Nights at 6:00 p.m. Facilitated by volunteers, Icebreakers is a support group sponsored by KSU's Queer Straight Alliance dedicated to providing individuals with a confidential and safe environment where they can explore issues concerning sexual orientation.  Everything that is discussed does not leave the meeting and everyone is respected. Please note:  Icebreakers occasionally does not meet over school breaks and holidays. Please contact QSA by email at qsa@ksu.edu to confirm meeting date and location.

Saturday December 16th:  FHA Christmas Dinner
7pm at Sirloin Stockade. If you wish to participate in the gift exchange please bring a gift that is suitable for all genders and that costs less than $5.  Please note: This is not a white elephant gift exchange. For more information, email FHA at: fha.kansas@usa.net.

Monday December 18th:  The Manhattan Project
7-8 p.m. ECM Building, 1021 Denison, in the Lounge.  Discussion group for gay men's issues. For more information, email Regional AIDS Project at: rap@flinthills.com.

Wednesday December 20th: QSA's Icebreakers
Wednesday Nights at 6:00 p.m. Facilitated by volunteers, Icebreakers is a support group sponsored by KSU's Queer Straight Alliance dedicated to providing individuals with a confidential and safe environment where they can explore issues concerning sexual orientation.  Everything that is discussed does not leave the meeting and everyone is respected. Please note:  Icebreakers occasionally does not meet over school breaks and holidays. Please contact QSA by email at qsa@ksu.edu to confirm meeting date and location.

Friday December 22nd: FHA's Coffee Talk
Coffee Talk for Women meets on the 2nd & 4th Fridays of each month from 8-9 pm at a local coffee house. For more information, email FHA at: fha.kansas@usa.net.

Wednesday December 27th: QSA's Icebreakers
Wednesday Nights at 6:00 p.m. Facilitated by volunteers, Icebreakers is a support group sponsored by KSU's Queer Straight Alliance dedicated to providing individuals with a confidential and safe environment where they can explore issues concerning sexual orientation.  Everything that is discussed does not leave the meeting and everyone is respected. Please note:  Icebreakers occasionally does not meet over school breaks and holidays. Please contact QSA by email at qsa@ksu.edu to confirm meeting date and location.

Wednesday January 10th: QSA's Icebreakers
Wednesday Nights at 6:00 p.m. Facilitated by volunteers, Icebreakers is a support group sponsored by KSU's Queer Straight Alliance dedicated to providing individuals with a confidential and safe environment where they can explore issues concerning sexual orientation.  Everything that is discussed does not leave the meeting and everyone is respected. Please note:  Icebreakers occasionally does not meet over school breaks and holidays. Please contact QSA by email at qsa@ksu.edu to confirm meeting date and location.

Friday January 12th: FHA's Coffee Talk
Coffee Talk for Women meets on the 2nd & 4th Fridays of each month from 8-9 pm at a local coffee house. For more information, email FHA at: fha.kansas@usa.net.

Wednesday January 17th

Friday January 19th: FHA Potluck
Come on over to Jen & Carol's at 7pm for a fun and tasty potluck. For more information, email FHA at: fha.kansas@usa.net.

Wednesday January 24th: QSA's Icebreakers
Wednesday Nights at 6:00 p.m. Facilitated by volunteers, Icebreakers is a support group sponsored by KSU's Queer Straight Alliance dedicated to providing individuals with a confidential and safe environment where they can explore issues concerning sexual orientation.  Everything that is discussed does not leave the meeting and everyone is respected. Please note:  Icebreakers occasionally does not meet over school breaks and holidays. Please contact QSA by email at qsa@ksu.edu to confirm meeting date and location.

Friday January 26th: FHA's Coffee Talk
Coffee Talk for Women meets on the 2nd & 4th Fridays of each month from 8-9 pm at a local coffee house. For more information, email FHA at: fha.kansas@usa.net.

Wednesday January 31st: QSA's Icebreakers
Wednesday Nights at 6:00 p.m. Facilitated by volunteers, Icebreakers is a support group sponsored by KSU's Queer Straight Alliance dedicated to providing individuals with a confidential and safe environment where they can explore issues concerning sexual orientation.  Everything that is discussed does not leave the meeting and everyone is respected. Please note:  Icebreakers occasionally does not meet over school breaks and holidays. Please contact QSA by email at qsa@ksu.edu to confirm meeting date and location.